Don’t let him tell you what friends you can and can’t have honey! One minute it’ll be your friends and next it could be what clothes to wear and could go on…
He might be jealous about you having guy friends but it’s not right for him to have girlfriends and you not have guy friends…
That’s the start of control darling, don’t let him get you into that rubbish, i don’t wanna get you thinking anything but if it’s okay for him to have girlfriends and you can’t have guy friends, that’s more than jealousy, that’s control, and it might be more than that… He could be worried about you having guy friends coz where he has girlfriends, he could be up to something with them and you not know about it and he doesn’t want you having guy friends for the worry of that same reason. (I’m sorry I don’t wanna start eating you worried but the alarm bells start ringing at that point).
It’s a normal thing to feel jealous but when you know that the person you’re with is trustworthy and know what they’re like, you’re comfortable with them to have opposite sex friends BUT… Just be careful and tell him if he’s gonna have girlfriends then you can have boyfriends too! And if he don’t like that then ⏰⏰⏰⏰⏰ (alarm bells) if he’s not comfortable with that then that might be a sign that he’s getting close with his girlfriends and that’s the same reason why he don’t want you to have guy friends, or he’s just possessive but don’t let yourself get into that…
And I’m really sorry but I really had to comment and I don’t usually but I don’t like the idea of him not liking it, it could just be that he’s either A. Jealous B. Insecure Or C. Possessive.
Just be weary darling! I wish you the best xoxox
